Women are notorious for giving men multiple so-called signs about their emotions, their wants and needs without being straightforward and upfront. Men are more of the literal gender; they do what is told to them. Most males do not like the games or puzzles that some women cast upon them because they may be afraid or unable to be upfront with their emotions.
All of that may be true, but there are 5 signs that every man should know about when it comes to speaking the female language.
Sign # 1: When a Woman Stands Motionless at a Door
What the Male Response Should Be: This sign symbolizes that the woman is wanting to be catered too and still believes in the old fashioned chivalry rules. She is trying to be on the male side, fighting saying ‘chivalry is not dead’. The male gender should remember this basic sign of chivalry and open the door for the lady whether it be a car door or a public office door. Realize that she is fighting for what others may think is dead– open the door and open your emotions!
Sign #2: When a Woman Says “I’m Fine”
What the Male Response should be: Come over NOW, and come prepared. Bring chocolate, coffee (or wine/beer), maybe a chick-flick and blanket for snuggling and tears. When a woman uses this over-used phrase she is typically battling her inner emotions and is reaching out for someone to take care of her without asking too many questions. Make sure to not let her get away with locking everything in, but be gentle with your phrasing and continually support her. Men can be gentle– giving her a call to show you are there for her is showing your true colors!
Sign #3: When a Woman Texts You One Word Answers
What the Male should Realize: Like the Backstreet Boys would say, “Quit Playing Games with My Heart”. Women are usually the gender that will lay their emotions and heart on the line. Society has made text messaging the new form of communication and not all men have quite grasped the concept of editing before sending. When a woman gets to the point of no longer putting in effort, she is beginning to feel the exhaustion and lose of hope in her ability to maintain any sort of relationship with you. The best thing to do is to show her you care; dig deeper into your conversation and allow her to understand where you are at with your emotions for her. You have the power to make or break the situation by how you respond–don’t play games with her heart.
Sign #4: When a Woman Gets Jealous Over ANY Situation
What the Male Response Should Be: Women get jealous for one reason and one reason only. Because they care about the person involved; in some cases are too self conscious of the situation. This is another societal mishap in regards to text messaging and social media in today’s society. Women, especially now-a-days, feel the need to battle every other woman who they think might threaten their relationship, or chance of relationship. Men are normally blamed by society as the cheaters and the disloyal gender; women are also noticed just not as openly. What men should really do in this situation is be honest with her and either explain or truthfully deny any allegations/accusations about what they are doing with or without their crush or significant other. Every man has their breaking point, I understand that the constant nagging may be too emotionally consuming, but that is where you choose to confront and dissolve the situation or fuel it by not talking about it. Men and women just need to be loyal and truth tellers. Period.
Sign #5: When a Woman Changes for You
What the Male Should Realize: This is a HUGE trait that many women pertain to utilize when it comes to crushing too hard and wanting a relationship possibly before the male is ready. She is willing to change plans, change her style, change her personality just to make her crush desire her, despite the fact that she is no longer truly herself. The male in this situation again should not play any games and be careful what is stated concerning his type or what he is seeking without reminding her (if warranted by the male’s feelings) that she encompasses what he is looking for. Women need reassurance to become comfortable with a man, to open up and to be who they truly are. The male gender in this situation may want to stimulate her confidence, take her, show her off or better yet, be your goofy male confused self around her showing that you are completely open.
Women are strange creatures and we morph and change as society evolves, but these five signs are the basic talk of the female-language and could help any man get through any situation. It may be difficult to open up and express how you feel, but if you truly want a woman she can’t be the only one to give and you be the only one to take.
Love is a two-way street… full of signs.